Thursday, January 19, 2012

Someone explain to me

How is it possible that a grandmother can be the nastiest person you know? My grandma on my moms side was an absolute saint and I have a permanent reminder of that on my shoulder. However, my grandma on my dads side is a wicked sick and twisted woman. She emailed my sister this morning out of the blue... "why don't u have ur last name on facbook (yes my grandma is a facebook addict, and my sister has her middle name) are you ashamed of this family? No one has heard from you in weeks. We understand you have been going through a lot (recently broke off engagement) but that is reason to osterzie the family." And that is all I remember from what she told me. She then posted in a family group that some members of the family she hasn't heard from in a while and has been blocked by some (that would probably be me but I deleted it to hide from this kind of thing) this is not the first nasty email my sister has received. I got one once asking why I didn't have my dad listed as my father on facebook and that she hopes no one ever treats me like that or forgets about me...I had to explain that dad doesn't have a facebook so I can't list him. Did I also mention when my saint grandma was in a car accident that put her in a wheelchair for the rest of her life, this grandma who worked in the hospital went to her room shut off her physical therapy machine, proceeded to yell at her for reasons I don't know, and left. I have lost complete respect for my grandma, and don't plan on attending any more family gathering with my dads side of the family, there is more drama in them than a highschool.


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1 comment:

  1. Hey, I saw your comment on WHOFs thingy, I commented like 3 times to tell them they're doing an amazing job! I came out as bi to my parents when I was 14, then at the end of my last relationship (to the guy I had kids with)at the age of 27, I came out as straight. I'm not entirely sure what I am but I don't really care either, as long as I'm happy it's cool yo. (I am so street at times) basically I wanted to say chin up pet. It's hard but we can get through it. And jealousy issues? Oh I got thems with the new boyfriend so I know exactly how you feel on that one. I was never jealous before either. It's horrible... Anyhoo's, hopefully the wizards of the interwebz will be able to connect this comment with my blog so if you feel like chatting then you can, I'm always happy to make a new friend :) my blog isn't that personal as yours as I'm still going through some shit with the ex but I'm sure you'll still get a giggle or two :)

    Luna x

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